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The moment I knew: I had planned to break up with him

Maleah Pearce and Dylan first began dating at age 16 while in high school. Dylan carried a reputation as a local “bad boy,” known for drinking at parties and occasionally resolving conflicts with his fists.

The beginning of a romance

Their relationship started unexpectedly after a game of online checkers via MSN and Facebook. Following their digital flirting, Dylan won the match and successfully requested they start dating. Maleah agreed to one movie date and a public declaration of their status, though she privately intended to break up with him within days.

Unexpected gestures

  • The first date exceeded expectations; Dylan invited mutual friends to keep Maleah comfortable, paid for her ticket, and bought her Malteasers.
  • When Maleah realized she had left her glasses in the car, Dylan ran back to the car park in skinny jeans and sandals to retrieve them.
  • At school, when Dylan first attempted to touch her lower back, Maleah immediately set a boundary: he was not allowed to touch her without permission. He complied, increasing her level of comfort.
  • Weeks passed and the breakup never happened.

Maleah grew to admire Dylan for his strong relationship with his mother, his work ethic in holding two part-time jobs, and his ambition to attend university. His focus on his future, combined with his physical fitness, solidified their bond.